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‘He gets zero fan mail’ – Twisted love letters to evil Graham Dwyer from female fans dry up in ‘blow’ to killer’s ego

EVIL killer Graham Dwyer no longer receives “love letters” from female fans looking for a relationship with him.

The banged-up 52-year-old used to receive scores of letters every year from women in Ireland and abroad, anxious to connect with him.

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But prison sources say the so-called “love letters” have now dried up and women, for various reasons, don’t want anything to do with the former architect any more.

Married dad Dwyer became one of Ireland’s most notorious murderers after his brutal killing of childcare worker Elaine O’Hara in 2012 sent shock waves across the country.

Her remains were found in the Dublin Mountains in 2013.

Dwyer is serving a life sentence at the Midlands Prison, and a jail source said: “The fan mail for Graham Dwyer has more or less stopped.

“There are little or no women writing to him anymore — in fact, he gets zero fan mail. He has now served ten years in jail and is getting older by the day.

“He has lost his boyish looks and is probably not the attraction that he used to be.

“I also think when women look at what he did to his victim, they might think to themselves, why would I want anything to do with a fella like him? It is a big blow to his inflated ego that women are not queuing up to write to him any more.”

Following a harrowing nine-week trial, evil Dwyer, from Foxrock, was convicted by unanimous verdict of stabbing 36-year-old Elaine to death in the Dublin Mountains.

The married man, who was filmed knifing sexual partners and admitted having an affair with his vulnerable victim, was hit with the mandatory life sentence.

Judge Tony Hunt told the court that he “110 per cent agreed” with the jury’s decision based on the evidence — which on three occasions was too gruesome for the public to be allowed to remain in the court.

Deluded Dwyer had pleaded not guilty ahead of the trial and did not give evidence, confident he would walk from court a free man.

The prosecution case summed up with the assertion he was “a sadistic and brutal pervert with nothing on his mind other than murder”.

Evidence from mobile phones used by Dwyer and his victim were central to the prosecution.

EVIDENCE FROM TRIAL

One text from the killer stood out in the evidence: “I want to stick my knife in flesh while I am sexually aroused. Blood turns me on and I’d like to stab a girl to death some time.”

Another sick message said: “My urge to rape, stab or kill is huge. You have to help me control or satisfy it.”

On the face of it, married Dwyer was living a normal life in a well-to-do part of south Dublin with his wife and children, working in a successful architects’ practice and enjoying a hobby of flying model planes.

Meanwhile all along he had been developing a deviant sexual affair after meeting his victim online.

State lawyers claimed he toyed with the idea of three potential victims, including Darci Day, a young woman from Maine in the US, who also met Dwyer on the internet and gave evidence via videolink.

Childcare worker O’Hara’s remains were found in a forest on Killakee Mountain on September 13, 2013.

She had been reported missing 13 months earlier.

No murder weapon was ever recovered, and due to her badly decomposed remains dental records were used to identify her, and an autopsy could not explain how she died.

A new Amazon Prime documentary on the brutal killing recently revealed startling images of the sex killer in O’Hara’s Dublin home.

Murderer Behind the Mask, released last month, gives a behind-the-scenes look at the major garda investigation which eventually led to Dwyer’s conviction.

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New CCTV footage showed Dwyer entering O’Hara’s home
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The two-part series features startling images of Dwyer and O’Hara separately entering Belarmine Plaza, despite the architect’s initial denials that it was him on camera.

Detective Sergeant Kevin Duggan told producers the task of trawling through footage was similar to looking for a “needle in the haystack”.

Speaking on the Amazon Prime show, Duggan explained: “On the day that Elaine O’Hara was reported missing, a decision was made by the detective superintendent in charge to seize the hard drive of all the CCTV footage for Elaine’s apartment block should we need it at some stage in the future.

“At the time of the murder investigation I was given the job to coordinate all CCTV footage relating to the apartment block where she lived.

“It was a fairly mammoth task to review this footage. There was something like over 5,300 hours. It was like looking for the needle in a haystack.

WHO WAS ELAINE O HARA

ELAINE O'Hara was 36 years old when she was murdered by Graham Dwyer.

She was last seen in August 2012 in a park in Shanganagh, south Dublin.

Born on St Patrick’s Day, March 17, in 1976 in Dublin, Elaine was raised in the capital and educated in Ballybrack and at St Joseph of Cluny secondary school in Killiney.

As a teen, she was bullied at school and lost a close friend in a road accident.

This led her to spiral into isolation, becoming withdrawn and self-harming on occasion.

Two major setbacks in her life were the death of her mother in March 2002 and the death of Prof Clare in October 2007.

She was admitted to St Edmundsbury Hospital in Lucan, Dublin – now St Patrick’s Hospital – 14 times between 1992 and 2012.

Elaine revealed to specialists she had been tormented by a “play in her head” – an obsession with being restrained – since the age of 12.

She was under the care of Professor Anthony Clare for 16 years, who said she did not have psychosis but diagnosed her with borderline personality disorder and depression.

Elaine also suffered from asthma and diabetes and was dyslexic.

She moved out the family home in Killiney in 2005 to an apartment in Blackrock.

Eventually she’d move to Stepaside in 2008.

She took night classes in Dun Laoghaire to become a Montessori teacher and worked as a childcare assistant at a school in Ballybrack and part-time at Ken’s newsagents in Blackrock.

A month before her murder, in July 2012, she had contacted St Edmundsbury herself and got admitted.

Her dad Frank and multiple doctors said they thought she’d been “doing better” before she vanished that August.

Her family, in a victim impact statement read to court in 2015, described Elaine as a “very intelligent girl who never fully realised her potential due to her psychological difficulties”.

They added: “She was prescribed a lot of medication and this did have an impact on her ability to be a regular teenager, particularly socially.

“She was emotionally immature and very trusting of anyone who showed her kindness.

“In later years her medication was reduced, hospital stays became less common and she functioned more effectively. However, she had missed out on those important, formative teenage years.

“She had a strong work ethic and loved working with children, as she could relate to them better than to adults.

“She was always there to help and assist others, giving lifts, covering shifts at work or collecting many of the items for the Christmas Fair at school.

“Elaine adored her niece who was also her goddaughter and loved reading, painting and playing with her.

“Elaine’s ambition was to be a teacher and she was studying Montessori.

“In 2014, we collected a BA in Montessori education which was awarded to her in St Nicholas Montessori school.

“She would have been so happy and proud to stand up in her gown and hat to accept that degree herself after overcoming many obstacles to finally get the qualification she longed for, but unfortunately this was not to be.”

“We were looking through CCTV footage but we really didn’t know what or who we were looking for.

“At one stage while reviewing the CCTV, one particular individual enters the apartment block.

“We hadn’t noticed this male enter before. It was someone new to us.

“He piqued our attention a little bit when he seemed a little bit uncomfortable, he seemed to be hiding his face from the camera.

“Also when he went to push the button for the lift he covered his hand with his sleeve of his jumper.

“That alerted us a little bit, that was a bit of a red flag.”

In court, Detective Sergeant Duggan also gave evidence that he and his team had viewed hours of CCTV footage from the apartment block at Belarmine Plaza in Stepaside.

This was shown to Dwyer’s son and former co-workers during proceedings, and the man in the images was later confirmed to be Dwyer.

The new documentary follows gardai as they uncover a “very surprising suspect”.

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Dwyer’s appearance on the footage ‘piqued’ investigators’ attention
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Christian Horner drops major hint over Max Verstappen exit as he reveals Red Bull contract clause

RED BULL boss Christian Horner has dropped a major hint over the future of Max Verstappen.

Verstappen has been heavily linked with a move away from Red Bull after falling away in the championship standings.

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Christian Horner has given a hint over the future of four-time F1 champion Max Verstappen[/caption]
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Verstappen has been linked with a move to Mercedes[/caption]

The Dutchman had been eyeing a fifth World Driver’s Championship title in a row at the start of the season, but now sits P3 in the driver standings behind McLaren duo Oscar Piastri and Lando Norris.

His gap to the top car is 61 points following a DNF at the Austrian Grand Prix after Kimi Antonelli crashed into the side of him on the opening lap.

Verstappen is well known to have clauses in his contract which means he can trigger an exit if results do not meet expectations – with one clause stating he must be running in at least P3 going into the summer break.

And Red Bull chief Horner has now lifted the lid on the future of the reigning world champion.

Speaking to Sky Italy, he said: “We have a great relationship with Max. We know where we stand within the agreement, which will always remain confidential between him and the team…

“We are just focused on performing. If things stay as they are, 100 per cent he will be with us next year.”

Paddock reports had suggested the 27-year-old was being linked with a stunning move to Mercedes.

George Russell sits nine points behind his rival in the drivers standings, but is out of contract with the Silver Arrows at the end of the season.

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And when pressed for clarification on his Verstappen comments, Horner deflected the question by focusing on the situation of the British driver.

He added: “It’s impossible to say 100 per cent.

“Is it clear George Russell will 100 per cent be at Mercedes next year?”

Despite the rumours, Verstappen stormed to pole position on Saturday at the British Grand Prix.

He was just over a tenth quicker than the second-quickest driver Piastri, with Norris, Russell and Lewis Hamilton completing the top five.

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Wimbledon 2025 LIVE RESULTS: Djokovic sails THROUGH, Shelton, Sinner and Swiatek into fourth round – updates

WIMBLEDON is heading towards the business end at the All England Club – and Novak Djokovic has booked his place in the fourth round.

Djokovic headlined Day 6 and defeated fellow Serbian Miomir Kecmanovic in three dominant sets.

Jannik Sinner and Iga Swiatek have both booked their spots in the next round.

And Ben Shelton joins the pair above after beating Marton Fucsovics.

Last night, Emma Raducanu was dumped out by World No1 Aryna Sabalenka, despite a brave display.

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Liam Gallagher’s sweet gesture to Noel during Oasis comeback gig proves the ‘brothers are at peace’

LIAM Gallagher made a sweet gesture to brother Noel last night – which signals that the “brothers are at peace”.

The famous brothers shared the stage for the first time in 16 years last night at Cardiff’s Principality Stadium.

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Liam Gallagher held hands with brother Noel as they made their long awaited return to the stage[/caption]
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The gesture signals a that the ‘brothers are at peace’[/caption]

Noel and Liam made their long awaited return to the stage, playing a whopping 23 songs from their impressive back catalogue including Roll With It, Stand By Me, Wonderwall and Don’t Look Back in Anger.

The former feuding brothers walked out on stage with their arms raised together.

Body language expert Judi James said this was a “celebratory ritual that suggested an air of sibling peace and harmony”.

“Analysis of the ritual is fascinating. It’s Liam who has grabbed Noel’s wrist to raise their arms, suggesting he’s the one wanting to push the idea that they’re reunited for real,” Judi told the Mirror.

“He also places a confident and controlling hand onto Noel’s shoulder, raising his maracas in the air in what looks like a V sign to signal victory.”

The expert also pointed out a moment where Noel took a moment to take everything in while performing Half The World Away.

Judi explained: “He looks like a man holding his breath like the rest of the fans in the hope that the sibling bonds hold firm this time and they get through their tour in a state of (almost) total harmony.”

Noel’s 25-year-old daughter Anais was in the crowds as she rocked out to her uncle and dad’s numerous hit tracks.

She posted a photo of herself having a smashing time with a pint in her hand and donning a blue Oasis shirt.

The model and photographer captioned the photo: “It’s good to be back.”

Anais’ mother Meg Mathews, who was married to Noel from 1997 until 2001, was also present at the concert.

But Meg reportedly “walked out” of the band’s comeback gig – just moments before “her song” was played

Along with die hard Oasis fans, celebrities turned up in the masses to see the iconic band return to the stage to sing 23 of their best loved tunes.

One person who made sure they were there was Noel’s ex-wife Meg.

The socialite has been a big supporter of Oasis’ comeback, so she was there to show her support on the tour’s first night.

A source told The Mirror: “After posting about her ex-husband for weeks, Meg Mathews had a prime seat for watching the band.

“She was in great spirits before the set, watching Richard Ashcroft with pals.”

However, after Oasis’ two hour set the band came back with a three song encore which included Don’t Look Back In Anger, Wonderwall and Champagne Supernova.

The Mirror reports that it was at this moment Meg decided to “walk out” and leave the gig.

Hardcore fans will remember that Noel actually wrote Wonderwall for Meg, when they were together.

GIG OF THE CENTURY

It’s fair to say last night’s Oasis comeback did NOT disappoint.

Fans were treated to performances by Cast, a Britpop band from Liverpool, and The Verve frontman Richard Ashcroft before the Gallagher brothers made their long awaited return to the stage.

Oasis proved they were worth the 16 year wait, playing a whopping 23 songs from their impressive back catalogue including Roll With It, Stand By Me, and Talk Tonight.

Before Cigarettes & Alcohol Liam dished out orders to the crowd, saying: “I want you to do us a favour. I don’t ask much.

“I want you to turn around, every single one of you

“Put your arms around each other like you like each other and when the tune starts you jump up and down.

“Its f***ing easy.”

After last night’s gig, Oasis play another night in Cardiff before moving on to Heaton Park in their native Manchester for five nights.

Then the band heads to Wembley Stadium for five nights from July 25 and then on to Edinburgh and Dublin, with the first part of their UK leg ending at Croke Park on August 17.

Oasis then heads over Canada and America for gigs in Toronto, Chicago, LA and Mexico City before returning to London for two more dates at Wembley at the end of September.

They then move on to Asia, Australia and South America, finally ending their tour on November 23 in Sao Paulo, Brazil.

You can check out every moment from last night’s first show in our Oasis blog.

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OASIS brothers Liam and Noel Gallagher have revealed a 17 gig comeback tour next summer - here are the details

The Wonderwall hitmakers will delight crowds as follows:

JULY 2025
4th – Cardiff, Principality Stadium
5th – Cardiff, Principality Stadium
11th – Manchester, Heaton Park
12th – Manchester, Heaton Park

16th – Manchester, Heaton Park
19th – Manchester, Heaton Park
20th – Manchester, Heaton Park
25th – London, Wembley Stadium
26th – London, Wembley Stadium

30th – London, Wembley Stadium

AUGUST 2025
2nd – London, Wembley Stadium
3rd – London, Wembley Stadium
8th – Edinburgh, Scottish Gas Murrayfield Stadium
9th – Edinburgh, Scottish Gas Murrayfield Stadium

12th – Edinburgh, Scottish Gas Murrayfield Stadium
16th – Dublin, Croke Park
17th – Dublin, Croke Park

SEPTEMBER 2025
27th – London, Wembley Stadium
28th – London, Wembley Stadium

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Ozzy Osbourne takes to stage for final time with Black Sabbath band mates in front of delighted rock fans

OZZY Osbourne and his Black Sabbath band mates took to the stage for the final time tonight.

Ozzy, 76, arrived on stage at Villa Park in Birmingham dressed in his trademark black, sitting on a bat throne for the historic gig.

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Ozzy Osbourne took to the stage for the final time on Saturday night
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Ozzy, 76, sat on a bat throne to perform
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The gig took place at Villa Park in Birmingham

Called Back To The Beginning, it is frontman and rock veteran Ozzy’s last time performing on stage amid his worsening diagnosis of Parkinson’s disease.

The crowd were delighted to see the iconic rocker back on stage, and kept chanting his name.

Ozzy was equally thrilled to be performing, and repeatedly broke out into a massive grin.

The gig was already being touted as “the greatest heavy metal show ever” ahead of Saturday and Ozzy will play a short set before reuniting with his bandmates Geezer Butler, Tony Iommi and Bill Ward.

It is the first time in 20 years that the original Black Sabbath line-up have performed together.

Ozzy, 76, has vowed it will be his final performance due to his deteriorating health. He went public with his Parkinson’s diagnosis in 2020.

Back To The Beginning has also featured a mega line-up of fellow rock stars, performing their own sets and as a super-group, and all the profits made will be going to charity.

The money will be shared equally between Cure Parkinson’s, Birmingham Children’s Hospital and Acorn Children’s Hospice.

Metallica and Slayer were on the line-up for main sets as they celebrated Ozzy’s remarkable legacy.

Pantera, Gojira, Alice In Chains, Halestorm, Lamb Of God, Anthrax, and Mastodon also played at the show.

Ahead of the gig, Ozzy’s wife Sharon told The Mirror: “There won’t be any head banging. Not any more. But his voice is still absolutely perfect.

“Even if you don’t like his music, you can’t not like Ozzy – he draws you in.”

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My secret married lover is being treated for cancer – and I’m heartbroken that I can’t visit him

DEAR DEIDRE: MY secret lover is being treated for cancer and I’m heartbroken that I can’t visit him.

This is not your usual seedy affair. We met through work ten years ago and this man has been the love of my life, my soulmate, ever since. I’m 45 and he’s 56.

During our decade together, he has married his wife, with whom he has three children.

But we speak or see each other every day. It’s not just physical, even though the intimate side of our relationship is electric.

After sex, we often lie in each other’s arms for hours, softly laughing and kissing, until he has to leave.

We love each other.

But I was the person who told him to see the doctor. I was kissing his shoulder and I noticed a mole looked red and raised.

He said he hadn’t been aware of it but I don’t know why his wife hadn’t noticed it.

Following tests, he made a brief phone call to me, saying he’d been admitted to hospital with stage-three skin cancer.

Since then, I’ve heard nothing. I’m in pieces — I don’t know how to get news on how he is.

I can’t visit him in case I bump into his wife and kids.

I can’t ask our HR team for too many updates without them suspecting we’re more than just colleagues — workplace relationships aren’t allowed.

I’m in limbo.

My friends aren’t sympathetic because they say he has strung me along for years. But I know he loves me.

My worst fear is that he will die, and I won’t know until it’s too late to go to his funeral.

What can I do?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Let’s start with the good news. It’s excellent that you noticed the mole and encouraged him to get it checked.

Sadly, skin-cancer rates are rising in the UK. And melanoma, the dead-liest form of it, is the fifth most common cancer in the UK.

Over the past decade, melanoma skin cancer incidence rates have increased by 32 per cent. You might very well have saved his life.

Now for the bad news. It doesn’t seem like he wants to spend that life with you.

While you waited for your next snatched moment together, he married and had three children with someone else.

You believe he’s your soulmate – but would he agree?

Life-threatening illnesses often cause people to take stock. I suggest you do the same.

It’s time to look for a new partner, one who will want you by their side every moment of their life, good and bad.

Please read my support pack, Your Lover Not Free? to help you see things more clearly.

Get in touch with Deidre

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

I’VE LISTED ALL OF HER SEXCUSES

DEAR DEIDRE: AM I being paranoid by thinking my girlfriend makes up reasons not to sleep with me?

We’re both 28 and have been dating for two years. Six months ago we moved in together. Since then, we’ve only had sex on 12 occasions.

The rest of the time, she makes excuses. I’ve started keeping a list.

She has not wanted sex for the following reasons: Headache, backache, bloating, tiredness, alcohol, a sore knee, constipation, work stress, mosquitoes, bread and wanting to watch Clarkson’s Farm.

Early on, our sex life was spectacular. My girlfriend used to be adventurous and would often surprise me with a new technique or position.

She was the most exciting woman I’d ever met and would do daring things like treat me to oral in the cinema, or fondle me while I drove.

I expected the sex to get even wilder when we shared a home. My girlfriend is a high-earner so our new apartment has a balcony and a Jacuzzi bath.

I had high hopes for the spicy action we would enjoy in both those locations, but sadly the only sex has been a rushed missionary session in bed.

I’ve tried to show my affection by helping her with housework, or suggesting we order in a takeaway, but she seems permanently grumpy.

It’s making me feel rejected and resentful. It’s like she pretended to be someone else for the first part of our relationship.

DEIDRE SAYS: Destroy that list. She is not a malfunctioning sex bot. She’s a real person with real feelings, and I suspect your entitlement might be the real turn-off here.

When I look at her reasons for not wanting sex, I see an exhausted, overwhelmed person who is eating big dinners (like your takeaways) and probably doesn’t feel relaxed and playful.

You say you “help” with house-work. Instead of helping, why not do at least half of it? She’s more likely to see the erotic potential of a Jacuzzi bath when she’s not the only one scrubbing it.

I understand that your desire for sex goes beyond a physical urge. You want to feel close, connected and loved. But so does she. Unlike men, women often need to feel those emotions before they head to bed, and not afterwards.

You see she’s grumpy so ask why. Clean the house, book a date night, talk and turn off the TV. Become a warm, loving partner and your adventurous girlfriend will return.

FAMILY FORUM

DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to move in with my boyfriend, but I’m scared my son’s behaviour will drive us apart.

My son is nine and I’m 34. My boyfriend is 37 and lives with his teenage daughter.

Even though he can be funny and loving, my son has always been a handful.

When he was a toddler, I would get calls from his childminder to say he’d been fighting or shouting at other kids. He would never sit still and easily lost his temper.

My son was six when I split up from his dad and became a single mum.

I’ve struggled to cope. I find myself giving in to whatever my son wants, just for an easier life.

Now, he calls me names, insults me, and helps himself to anything he wants from the kitchen or my handbag. When he’s happy, he’s great company. But then a switch will flip and he’ll be spiteful or break something.

His dad has a new family now and rarely sees him.

My new boyfriend and I met a year ago through a dating app for single parents. I immediately liked how hands-on he was as a parent, having his daughter three or four nights every week.

My boyfriend wants me and my son to move in. I’d love to, but I have hidden the worst of my son’s behaviour from him. When my boyfriend sees what my son can be like, I’m scared he’ll lose interest in both of us. I don’t know what to do.

DEIDRE SAYS: The more positive role models your son has in his life, the better. Long-term, your boyfriend could be an excellent influence.

In the short term, I’d focus on getting your son more support, rather than any more change.

Has his school ever suggested an assessment for ADHD or autism?

Some of his behaviour could suggest he’s neurodivergent, so that might be a sensible first step.

Find a club he might be interested in, such as martial arts or Cubs, to give him the opportunity to make friends outside of his school classroom.

At home, set boundaries and a routine that you can both stick to. Reward him for good behaviour.

HAUNTED BY OVERDOSING FEARS

DEAR DEIDRE: THE only way to find peace from my drug-addict boyfriend was to leave him, move away and switch off my phone.

Now I’m haunted by fears of him overdosing.

I’m 23, he’s 27 and we were great together for three years. But his recreational drug use crept up until he was doing very hard drugs.

I tried to get him help, but he would skip hospital or counselling appointments to hang out with his dealer.

Finally, I snapped. I moved away, leaving him and everyone I knew behind. I switched off my phone to stop him calling. I know I made the right move, but who will ensure he is safe now?

DEIDRE SAYS: It was his choice to ignore your help. I understand your fears but his health isn’t your responsibility.

Talking about your worries can help a lot.

Family-action.org.uk – 0808 802 6666 – provides a free listening ear for family and relationship problems. You could also contact nar-anon.co.uk, for people affected by a partner’s drug abuse.

Can I sue hospital?

DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT laughed out of A&E for a “superficial cut” – then had my arm amputated for gangrene.

Can I sue the hospital?

I sliced my little finger on a veg knife. The cut didn’t heal, and after a few days I couldn’t sleep because it was throbbing so badly.

Panicking, I drove myself to A&E. After a long wait, I got laughed at by a doctor, who told me: “Try a plaster.”

When I insisted something was wrong, he called security to escort me out.

The cut got worse and I ended up developing gan-grene. I had to have the arm amputated above the elbow.

I’m still in pain, I’ve lost my job and my mental health has really suffered.

Can I take legal action?

DEIDRE SAYS: That is a tragic tale. You might have grounds to sue. The first step would be to contact The Patients Association (patients-association.org.uk) where you can speak to a trained adviser.

You can also get useful information on how to make a complaint, through the Patient Advice and Liaison Service, PALS, via nhs.uk.

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Man Utd make shock move to sign free agent Dominic Calvert-Lewin as new transfer realities are laid bare

MANCHESTER UNITED are making a shock move to sign free agent Dominic Calvert-Lewin.

The striker, 28, is available after leaving Everton at the end of his contract this week.

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Man Utd are looking to sign Dominic Calvert-Lewin after his Everton deal expired[/caption]

United boss Ruben Amorim wants to snap up Calvert-Lewin as Red Devils chiefs juggle their finances and try to build a new forward line.

Insiders have revealed the club reached out to the ex-Toffees frontman about the possibility of a surprise move from Merseyside to Manchester.

United have already landed Wolves striker Matheus Cunha for £62.5million and also bid the same figure for Brentford forward Bryan Mbeumo.

But Amorim is also looking to offload attackers — and Rasmus Hojlund, Marcus Rashford, Alejandro Garnacho, Jadon Sancho and Antony are all in the firing line.

If United balance the books successfully then it could create a gap in Amorim’s squad for a new man who can lead the line but would also be happy to be a back-up forward.

Calvert-Lewin was in demand when he scored double figures in successive seasons for Everton from 2019 to 2021 before injuries hit him hard.

United believe Calvert-Lewin has qualities they lack and the demands of being third or fourth choice may suit him.

They could offer him a lucrative contract, including bonuses for appearances, in a deal to suit both parties.

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Amorim has made two offers for Mbeumo but the Bees are holding firm to get their £65m valuation of the Cameroon forward.

Meanwhile, Juventus are ready to offer former Aston Villa midfielder Douglas Luiz in exchange for out-of-favour Sancho.

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The Italians are keen on Sancho, who was sent on loan to Chelsea last  season after a public falling out with ex-United boss Erik ten Hag.

Sancho is one of five stars who Amorim has told to stay away from United’s pre-season training, which starts tomorrow at Carrington.

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Floor was slick with blood, screams echoed in tunnel, I felt every human emotion, says 7/7 survivor on 20th anniversary

ON the morning of July 7, 2005, journalist Peter Zimonjic and his wife Donna set off from their West London flat to catch a train into the city.

It was a seemingly ordinary day, much like any other – but it would turn out to change Peter’s life for ever.

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Peter Zimonjic says the 7/7 bombings have taught him to feel in his bones how our time on Earth is fleeting[/caption]
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For he was about to witness the worst terror incident since the 1988 Lockerbie disaster – and the first suicide bombings that the UK had ever seen.

That morning, just before 9am, three al-Qaeda-affiliated terrorists detonated devices on Tube trains in central London.

An hour later, a fourth device was set off on a No30 bus near Euston station.

The 7/7 bombings killed 52 people and injured over 770.

Peter and Donna had caught a train at their local station in Hanwell, near Ealing.

But when they had to change trains, Donna chose to take a different route from Peter’s, as she was heavily pregnant and thought she would be unlikely to find a seat on the busy Circle Line.

So Peter got on without her – and was caught up in one of the deadly explosions that has haunted him ever since.

Tomorrow there will be a service of commemoration at St Paul’s Cathedral for those who were killed or injured on the city’s transport network.

But for Peter, 52, it will be too heartbreaking to return.

Here, he explains why.


MY wife, Donna, was eight months pregnant with our first child on the morning of July 7, 2005.

She had slept poorly, which meant so did I.

At Paddington I kissed her goodbye, watched her train disappear into the tunnel, and marched to the Circle Line.

I stood in the crowded carriage as the train accelerated towards ­Edgware Road.

Around the same time a bomber got on at that station.

As his train passed mine in the tunnel, he detonated his bomb.

There was a sudden loud smashing noise which reminded me of the metal on metal of one car hitting another in a high-speed accident.

I thought two trains had clipped one another as they passed in the tunnel.

The thought of it being a bomb was an alien one.

When the emergency lighting returned in the carriage, smoke was beginning to sting our senses.

‘Clothes shredded’

A family nearby comforted their terrified children.

A man to my left grasped at the sealed doors to escape. Panic spread.

From the carriage behind, a person asked for help.

When a man in front of me moved towards the calling voice, I followed.

The coach on the parallel track lay in darkness, but through the sliding doors we could see a leg and an arm wiggling into our train.

The limbs belonged to a man ­trying to force his way through a hopelessly narrow crack in the doors — his clothes shredded, his skin dripping with blood, his face frantic.

A man helps an injured woman after a bombing.
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First responder Paul Dadge helps injured passenger Davinia Turrell at Edgware Road tube station[/caption]
Damaged London Underground train after a bomb explosion.
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The bombed Edgware Road Circle Line train where six victims died[/caption]

The man I’d followed into that carriage, who I would later learn was named Tim Coulson, worked with me in a vain attempt to release the door.

We smashed the window and jumped across the track into the darkened carriage of the neighbouring train.

I climbed through the window frame and slid on a floor that was slick with blood.

Bodies, some ­moving, some frozen, lay strewn about the dim carriage.

Screams echoed through the ­tunnel, all pleading for help.

Some were close, some seemed very far away.

All were filled with a deep terror.

It was a sound I’d not heard before or since.

Stepping back and looking down the carriage, I could see a man in a suit trying to revive a woman lying prone on the carriage floor, her clothes almost blown off, with chest compressions.

The outcome of that effort had been decided long before he got there.

My heart raced, my breathing shortened, my head swelled — I didn’t know what to do next.

I was experiencing every human emotion at once — I was overwhelmed, ­incapable, impaired.

Illustration of London bombings, showing locations, casualties, and bombers.

I felt a hand on my leg, and when I looked down I saw a man lying on his back.

He pointed below his waist where I could see he only had one leg.

The stump that remained had been tied off with the remnants of a white collared shirt.

I took off my suit jacket, folded it and put it under his head.

I took off my shirt and ripped it into bandages, strengthening the tourniquet.

For more than an hour I lurched through the carriage looking for ­people I could help, feeling that whatever I did was not enough.

When we finally walked through the tunnel into daylight, I phoned Donna.

I did not know if she was the victim of another bomb on another train.

For 20 years I’ve lived my life trying to only think of the terror of that day on its anniversary

Peter Zimonjic

When I heard her voice I broke down for the first time.

She had thought it was some kind of fault or disruption.

When I told her it was a terror attack, she kicked into survival mode and helped me get home.

I wrote an account of my ­experiences that ran in the Sunday papers immediately following the attacks.

A man named Andrew Ferguson who recognised my description of him, of his efforts to help save ­people that day, reached out to me and we went for a pint.

It was like meeting a lost brother.

Help people connect

For the Tube staff and the ­emergency service workers, the bombings happened at their place of business, alongside colleagues.

But the passengers were all strangers, alien to one another.

I set out to fix that and created londonrecovers.com to help people connect and fill in the blanks of the day.

Many became the subject of my book: Into The Darkness: An Account Of 7/7, a retelling of the day we were trapped in the hellish scenes together.

When I moved back to Canada two years later, Tim and his wife Judy came to stay with us and over the years we kept in touch.

When I flew back for the tenth anniversary of the attack, they sat right behind us in St Paul’s ­Cathedral. We embraced and smiled, so happy to see one another alive and well again.

Family on a rocky beach.
Peter with his wife Donna and their kids Anja and Jakob
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Tim Coulson, survivor of the July 7 London bombings, at the inquest.
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Peter’s friend Tim Coulson, who died last year[/caption]

For 20 years I’ve lived my life trying to only think of the terror of that day on its anniversary.

The grandest resistance to that horror and death, I have always felt, is to live and to find joy, to love my wife and daughter Anja, now 20, born two weeks after the bombs, and my son Jakob, now 18.

As this anniversary approached, I decided not to come back to ­London to mark the occasion.

I wanted to, but I couldn’t.

Earlier this year the world lost Tim.

I wouldn’t be able to sit in St Paul’s and feel that empty space behind me.

The July 7 bombings taught me life is fleeting — which is one thing to know and another to really feel in your bones.

Marked by the horror of the day, I was fortunate not to have faced the terrible injuries some survivors have had to bear, or the unfathomable loss of loved ones that others still live without.

Most fortunate was that I was able to walk out of that tunnel and into the arms of my wife, that I was able to witness the birth of my children, that I was able to grasp the sunlight and pull myself out of that tunnel to live and love and survive.

I GOT ABUSE DUE TO MY MUSLIM FAITH

WHEN the first Tube bomber set off his device on the eastbound Circle Line train between Liverpool Street and Aldgate, Muslim passenger Mustafa Kurtuldu was sitting in the next carriage.

After the blast he had an agonising 45-minute wait for emergency services to lead him to safety – and then went on to receive abuse because of his religion.

Mustafa, now a designer, said: “My bag was searched after we were rescued from the Tube, and when I was outside it was searched again after an officer asked my name.

“I sat next to a Spanish guy while I was being transported to hospital on a bus, but I felt as though he was treated differently to me and was given more sympathy. I was only 24 years old and had the burden of being an ‘unelected official’ for the Muslim community.

“I had the anxiety of explaining that I wasn’t the ‘bad guy’.

“In the weeks following the bombings I was attacked at knifepoint, and was made to condemn the attacks as a Muslim.

“If someone is a victim of any other kind of crime, they wouldn’t be asked to condemn it.

“It’s so irrational. You are held to a higher level of accountability.

“It still happens. I was on a flight back from Canada and was pulled to the side with other Asian men.

“When the flight attendant saw I was in business class, she apologised, so I asked if terrorists don’t travel business class. It’s ridiculous.”

And 20 years on, Mustafa is still suffering.

He added: “I used to go to the memorial in Hyde Park and break down.

“I had such survivor’s guilt. It has seriously affected me.

“Over time, you learn to pretend that it doesn’t impact you. I tried to talk to others about it but people don’t understand.”

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Diddy spiked my drink – it felt like I had 50 valium… he wanted me to leave with him but I feared I’d be raped

Collage of Diddy, a woman, and the DC-10 nightclub.

A FORMER gogo dancer in Ibiza clubland believes she had a narrow escape from the clutches of Sean “Diddy” Combs – claiming he spiked her drink and made sexual advances.

Belen Ronda Campesino, 45, says she felt so out of it after encountering the now disgraced hip-hip mogul at the club she worked at, that it felt like she had taken “50 Valium tablets”.

Belen Ronda Campesino, a Spanish dancer, stands on a boardwalk.
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Former gogo dancer Belen Ronda Campesino believes she had a narrow escape from the clutches of Sean “Diddy” Combs – claiming he spiked her drink and made sexual advances[/caption]
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The beautician claims Combs, 55, tried to drag her to a house party where she fears she might have been raped[/caption]
Crowd at DC10 nightclub in Ibiza.
Belen worked as a dancer at Ibiza club DC-10

The beautician claims Combs, 55, then tried to drag her to a house party where she fears she might have been raped.

Her story comes after Grammy-winning US rapper Combs was convicted on Wednesday of prostitution charges in his sex-crimes trial in New York.

He was found not guilty of the more serious crimes of racketeering and sex-trafficking but could still face 20 years in prison.

Belen says details from the star’s trial — including claims he made two ex-girlfriends have sex with male escorts at drug-fuelled parties referred to as “freak-offs” — had turned her stomach, made her heart race and given her “severe anxiety”.

She adds: “It makes me furious to hear during his trial what he has done to women.

He made sexual advances on me, telling me that he liked me a lot.

Belen Ronda Campesino

“I don’t really follow the news but when I saw some pictures of this guy because of his trial I got really nervous.

“I had a similar experience with him to everything that has been coming out now.”

Belen says she encountered Combs in 2006 around the DJ booth at the DC-10 club where she worked.

She recalls: “It looked like he had taken a lot of drugs, his jaw was totally out of joint.

“He was with four very large bodyguards.

“He made sexual advances on me, telling me that he liked me a lot.”

Belen, who lives in Spain, says things had begun to go south, when Combs bought her a drink.

She adds: “I saw that when he went to put the wad of cash away he took out a bag with a white powder in it, which I thought was cocaine.

“But he started to do something weird in his pocket and it really bothered me.

“I turned around and was telling a friend, but then I stupidly drank the juice.

“About 10 or 15 minutes later I started feeling dizzy and sleepy and I was sweating heavily.

“I didn’t understand what was going on.”

She reveals that she had tried to escape to the VIP area, but he followed her there and tried to get her to a party at his house.

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Belen and Combs at Ibiza club DC-10 in 2006
Photo of Sean Combs at a nightclub.
Belen says Combs ‘looked like he had taken a lot of drugs’

She says: “I told him I didn’t want to go, that I was not feeling well and needed to go home.

“He squeezed my arm and was pulling on my hand.

“That’s when I felt sure they had put something in my drink.

“My friend really wanted to go to the party but I told her we might be raped if we went.”

‘Dizzy and sleepy’

She says Combs tried to stop her leaving, but she ran to the bathroom and left the club.

She reveals: “The next day I slept the whole day.

“People were calling me and ringing my bell at home but I didn’t hear anything.

“It was like I had taken 50 Valium tablets.

“Now I realise I had a very lucky escape.”

A party fixer exclusively told The Sun on Sunday last year how Ibiza clubs such as DC-10, Space and Amnesia were Combs’ stomping grounds for years.

After the verdicts were read out on Wednesday at his trial, Combs dropped to his knees and made a praying gesture.

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Combs gets into the party vibe at the club
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Belen met Combs around the DJ booth at the DC-10 club

But he was denied bail, remains in jail and is expected to be sentenced over his prostitution conviction on October 3.

But due to sentencing guidelines, he is likely to serve less than five years in prison.

A lawyer representing more than 100 alleged victims in civil cases against Combs vowed they would fight on despite the sex-trafficking and racketeering not-guilty verdicts.

Tony Buzbee said: “Diddy dodged a big bullet today.

“But that doesn’t end the saga.”

Courtroom sketch of Sean "Diddy" Combs reacting to a verdict.
Combs made a praying gesture in court
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Lottie Moss in huge career move as ex-OnlyFans star reveals truth about relationships and addiction

MODEL Lottie Moss is writing her first book — based on secret ­diaries kept since her teens.

The autobiography by the 27-year-old — half-sister to Kate Moss — is set to tell all about her relationships and battles with drug and alcohol addiction.

Lottie Moss at the Celebrity Bear Hunt screening.
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Lottie Moss is writing her first book — based on secret ­diaries kept since her teens[/caption]
Kate Moss and Lottie Moss at a fashion show.
Lottie with half-sister Kate
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An insider said: “Lottie has always been known as Kate’s little sister — but this is her chance to tell her side of the story.

“She has kept written and video diaries since she was a teenager, so will be compiling all her scribbles and memories into the book.

“Lottie is excited to tell the truth about her struggles with body image, addiction and relationships.

“She won’t hold back and fans can expect no filter.”

Speaking previously about supermodel Kate, 51, Lottie said: “I felt a lot of pressure to be like her and look like her. And you know, I dabbled in that party lifestyle.

“I always felt compared to her at the beginning of my career, and people expected me to be like a carbon copy.”

Earlier this year, Lottie revealed she had quit adult content website OnlyFans after falling out with her family over it.

She said: “I lost a lot of friends from the modelling industry.

“My mum didn’t speak to me for weeks and my family was a little bit in turmoil over it.”

Lottie, who has launched podcast Dream On With Lottie Moss, is single after splitting from musician Evan Campbell last June.

She has previously been linked to Brooklyn Beckham and radio host Roman Kemp.

In 2023, Lottie was accused of hooking up with former Made in Chelsea star Spencer Matthews — behind the back of his model wife Vogue Williams.

The alleged union was said to have taken place at the wedding of Spencer’s co-stars Jamie Laing and Sophie Habboo in Spain.

But Lottie told The Sun on Sunday’s Fabulous magazine: “Everyone at that wedding knows it didn’t happen.

“It was full of ­reality stars, so people wanted gossip.”

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Earlier this year, Lottie revealed she had quit adult content website OnlyFans after falling out with her family over it[/caption]
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She said: ‘I lost a lot of friends from the modelling industry’
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She added: ‘My mum didn’t speak to me for weeks and my family was a little bit in turmoil over it’
Spencer Matthews at the Global's Make Some Noise Charity Gala.
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Lottie was accused of hooking up with Spencer Matthews — behind the back of his wife Vogue Williams in 2023[/caption]

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